Friday, February 25, 2011

Rebellion Royalty

Picture this:  a serene, quiet neighborhood in the north suburbs of Chicago.  Expensive, large houses on tree lined streets...  Trim, landscaped lawns – not a dandelion to be seen… SUVs and/0r other suburb-appropriate cars – sparkling clean, waiting for their driver to hop in at any moment for a jaunt to Starbucks or a book club.  As you walk down the street, you look at each house you pass.  This one has a turret on it – this one has a beautiful bay window – this one obviously had an addition added to it at some point…. and this one.  Wait, WHAT on earth is up with THIS house?

It’s small, first of all – dwarfed in size by the houses on either side of it.  The red & white paint on it is clearly chipping; the lawn is out of control – dandelions all over the place and the grass is long – not prairie length long, but long compared to the two pristine lawns on either side of it.  As you look around, things get curiouser and curiouser.  There are stuffed animals and other random, alley-found items tucked into whatever areas they can be tucked.  Lining the front steps – propped up next to the small tree that’s growing in front by the curb – tucked into the branches of the tree – actually, there are a ton of things in the tree!  Trial CDs of AOL are hanging from the tree on strings like Christmas ornaments…  And then you see it, the pièce de résistance… the Cow Car.  

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Don't Fence Me In

[Feb 22nd, 2011]

My high school had this goofy teacher that was in charge of announcements on the loudspeaker.  Beyond his announcements, he achieved fame within the school by playing a song every Friday.  He picked a new one each year, and that song would be the “Friday Song” for the whole entire year.  Even if we didn’t love his song selection, it was still a fun thing to look forward to on Fridays.  One year the Friday Song was that oldies song “Teenager in Love” – which actually was a big hit.  Two of the years’ songs elude me, I’m embarrassed to say – and the fourth song from my high school years was “Don’t Fence Me In.”  [the Ella Fitzgerald version, for anyone who’s curious]

Now, I’m sure he picked “Don’t Fence Me In” because the main character’s name is Wildcat Kelly – and our school’s mascot was the Wildkit.  (Get it?  We were in Evanston, home of Northwestern – their mascot was the Wildcat, so ours was the Wildkit… Cute?  MEH.  It’s sports.  We know how I feel about sports: unenthused.)  But even if his reasons for picking it were purely mascot-related, it was actually a great song for us teenagers to hear every week for a whole school year.  Not just because it gave us non-pop music influence, and no, not because it depicts prison as a place to avoid.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Love Letters

[February 14, 2011]

I’ve never been crazy about Valentine’s Day – and it’s certainly not due to a lack of romanticism on my part.  Probably because acts of love on this day often feel forced?  Or just overly-influenced by marketing and advertising?  In my opinion, a candlelit dinner or a bouquet of flowers are so much more special on random/unexpected days.  NOT a day that is on every printed wall calendar and every window display knocks you over the head with.  Plus, this particular day ruins the dining experiences of non-Valentine’s Day participators who are trying to go out for a yummy meal.  A lady friend of mine & I totally forgot what weekend it was this past weekend (i.e. precursor to VDay weekend) and tried to go out for dinner downtown on Saturday and were lucky enough to get a table at a yummy restaurant (Markethouse – go eat there!).  We were fortunate; I know most restaurants get very sardines-in-a-can around this time – and really, who enjoys that?

Enough, though, with my issues with Valentine’s Day, because I’m coming across as someone who’s anti-VDay – and I’m not.  I like to look at it as a day that celebrates love.  And that?  That, I’m up for.  Bust out the heart socks folks – there’s no better day to wear them.

I LOVE love; I’m a self-accused crazy person when it comes to love.  I’ve often compared myself to the guy in Moulin Rouge: “Love is like oxygen!  Love lifts us up – all we need is love!”

Me personally?  I’ve been in love since first grade. 

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Part of My Heart Lives in Key West

[January 28-31, 2011]


Maybe the hardest part about traveling, for me, is when I fall in love with a place and then have to leave it.  So far, the places like this that come to mind are Paris, San Francisco, and Key West.  Key West is the freshest in my mind, because a) I've just gotten back from there, and b) this was my third trip - so I know it better now than ever, have three times now had my love for it confirmed, and have consequently now had to leave it three times.  My heart is a little bit broken.

Here's my intro...

Confessions of a Night Owl

[February 2011]
I am many things - but I am absolutely NOT a morning person.  


I'm just so functional at night!  Around the time 11pm rolls around, most of you sane, normal people are climbing into bed, but me?  That's when I get some of my best creative ideas.  It’s around that time that I’m hit with some great idea and the energy to follow it through.  Sometimes it’s writing, sometimes decoupage… to create a unique, crafty gift for someone… to watch a movie and sort through piles that have been building up on my desk – all sorts of options.  Maybe make a mix CD… In that magical window of time between 11pm and 2am, the world is my oyster.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

most of the time, we fall in love but can't remain there...

From one of my favorite books, on love:

"Most of the time, we fall in love but can't remain there.  The world then calls the state we were in a delusion or infatuation.  But we were not deluded.  We were not just infatuated.  We merely lacked, or someone else lacked, the emotional skills to hold on to the magic when the morning came.  Later we would tell ourselves that the moment of magic had not been real, but that analysis is just a collective lie.  We invented the lie as a way to face the disappointment of having been to the moon on a starlit night, and then fallen back down to what can seem like such a barren earth." 

  - Marianne Williamson, "Enchanted Love: The Mystical Power of Intimate Relationships."