Monday, July 30, 2012

Protectors & Super Heroes

A lot of women, myself included, have a bit of a superhero complex.  We all know the cliché of women swooning over men in uniforms – I personally believe that it’s not just about looking good in a uniform, but that it actually comes from a place much deeper than superficiality.  Men in uniform are typically the protectors in our society.  They’re the policemen, the firemen, the military men fighting for our country – their uniforms, closer to superhero costumes than people are often willing to concede, visually define them as our protectors – as noble folk who lead selfless lives, putting the greater good of humanity over their own.  In the realm of fairytales, these uniformed men are modern day versions of knights in shining armor, and all us Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty hopefuls love them for it.  (I should mention that this isn’t all gender-role specific.  Pretty sure GLBT romantics love a uniformed protector just as much as the next person.  Hell, society in general loves the uniformed folk – they’re as close as we get to having Superman and Batman jump off the pages of our comic books and into our real lives.)

With all the respect in the world for our uniformed protectors out there, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the unsung heroes of the world...

Monday, July 16, 2012

The Lost Month | Balance


You can tell I'm not a Libra, because balance is something that does NOT come naturally to me.  [I should just own, by the way, that I'm making uneducated analogies right now, as I'm not really familiar with the zodiac write-up of Libras... but I assume balance is something important to them, due to their representative symbol.]

I've been a bit off-balance my whole life.  Most times, if I'm into something, I'm SUPER into it.  If I'm upset about something, I'm devastated.  If I like something, I want tons of it.  If I enjoy something, I want to experience it as often as possible.

Somehow, I didn't really learn self-discipline while growing up... how to let the mind rationally interact with the heart.  

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Bliss-Following: Alain Milotti | Photography




Alain Milotti has a zest for life.  The kind of zest, specifically, that comes from having a vocation that fulfills your soul.  Have you ever spent time with someone who is just straight up enjoying life?  Whatever the man-version of glowing is – he’s doing it.

I met up with him on a recent Sunday for brunching, interviewing, and general summer enjoyment with good company.  When I buzzed his loft building doorbell, he announced on the speaker, “Hey! 4th floor.  I’ll be greeting you in a bathrobe.”